Good Hearted or Just Animal Nazis?

Over the years I’ve listened to people complain about the adoption and rescue practices of various groups and today it is a hot topic.

During the time I worked as an adoption counselor I was mortified at just how difficult the shelter made it to adopt animals.

Suitable households would often be denied an animal because of one minor flaw in a long list of criterion and many, many rules.

This did not prevent animals from being brought back once they were adopted either–which I think was the goal but that doesn’t guarantee anything.

Over the last month two of my close friends have shared experiences with me.

The first works for a cat rescue group. She had three siblings that SHE wanted to go to the same home. In the end, that did not happen and the cats remain in her care.

Not to say that they don’t have it good–they have it better than most animals I know–but her expectations were unrealistic.

From the behavior end, I would never recommend that sibling animals be placed together (in most cases) for a variety of reasons.

And just how many people want to take on three new animals at once?

While many animals sit in cages or abnormal conditions waiting for homes–people are denied adoption rights because someone or some group has to “sanction” the adoption.

Personally, I think some screening is a good idea but would rather see an animal get into a home instead of sitting in a cage for six months as was the case with another pal’s new animal.

This person has been a cat owner for over fifty years. She has spent thousands of dollars on her senior cats–including periodontal work.

However when she went to adopt her newest cat–it was a circus.

First, the cat was in a small cage where he could barely stretch or move around and had been there for over six months.

Her visitations to this cat were no less than four AND she also had a few of her closest friends to go and check him out too.

Once that was done, two adoption agency people came over for home inspections.

But they were amazingly anal and stupid when it came to handling their new human client. I certainly would not want to recommend anyone adopt from that agency based on the behavior of the volunteers and staff–and what was said to my friend.

Ultimately, that cat is happily living in a home where he is loved and is adjusting to life outside of the cage.

He is happy and my friend is thrilled–but is it really necessary to make animal adoptions so difficult?

So, my questions to you are: how extreme do you think agencies and people adopting out animals should get? Do you see a need for change or are you happy with such adoption practics as they stand today?

Finally, I’d love to hear your experiences.

Ten Stupid Mistakes Pet Owners Make

Recently I was asked about the common mistakes pet owners make.

Over the years I’ve seen the same ones over and over again.

Although each situation may be unique, the trends behind them are not and so I decided to construct a list of the ten stupid mistakes pet owners make:

1. Impulsive Acquisition of Animals

Obtaining an animal without thinking it through is really getting off on the wrong paw.

Adoptions, purchases of puppy mill animals, or accepting an animal gift without researching about the breed or species is a common mistake and it makes life hell for the animal and the humans.

2. Lack of Preparation for Pet’s Arrival

This starts with the failure to research what pet will fit best into a household (refer to stupid pet owner mistake number 1).

Under this mistake are several related actions such as the failure to prepare the home for the new pet (often called safety proofing) and not budgeting for the annual needs of the animal (food, supplies, professional pet care such as grooming, training, wellness visits, emergencies, etc).

3. Failure to Teach the Rules of the Household

Animals must be taught the rules of human households—otherwise they act like a bunch of animals.

Most people fail to set rules or to enforce them. Some visitors even argue that poor behavior is “okay” or that the animal “…is just a baby.

I’ve got news: Poor behavior becomes bad behavior and it is never okay.

4. Ignore the Positive

Correcting an animal when it makes a mistake is focusing on punishment instead of accentuating the positive.

Not rewarding good behavior is an error found in most pet owning households.

Many pets thrive on attention and will actually get reinforced for bad behavior by humans who don’t understand what they are reinforcing.

Animals seek attention—and to many it doesn’t matter if it is good or bad attention. This is why some undesirable bad behavior escalates instead of changing or stopping.

5. Dismiss Professional Care & Advice

Regular health care, body care (grooming care of the skin, coat, nails, anal glands) and behavior coaching are essential to the well-being of an animal.

Believe it or not, much of the advice given to pet owners by their veterinarian, groomer, animal trainer, animal behaviorist, or pet care professional is often ignored.

In many cases the pet owner fails to take action or to heed professional advice until a problem has escalated to a critical condition.

6. Humanize the Pet

One of the more disturbing trends sweeping the nation is the current humanization of pets.

Pets are animals and not furry humans–and pets are definitely not accessories.

When animals are not understood or respected for who and what they are—trouble follows. Treating pets as humans contributes to the increase in poor pet behavior and incidents.

7. Ignore or Don’t Learn to Recognize Body Language

Animals communicate through body language and behavior. If ignored, animals will escalate into inappropriate behaviors such as biting or scratching.

Ignoring body language and signals from the animal are why many injuries occur.

8. Procrastinate

Delaying action when it comes to house training, grooming, behavior training, or wellness care often results in injury or illness.

Prevention is easy—it only requires early action.

9. Don’t Adequately Supervise Pet

Over 4.7 million reported dog bites occur annually in the United States simply because people fail to supervise their pets.

It gets ugly when small children are around. Public incidents involving other animals or humans should not be so common and many more are not reported.

10. Commitment Failures

An estimated four million animals end up in shelters around the nation annually because people do not commit to keeping an animal through its entire lifetime.

Other animals are simply abandoned to fend for themselves–many end up suffering from starvation, dehydration, and other dangers.

I am sure you will want to chime in with your favorites–please comment below.