Are You Sensible or Senseless When it Comes to Animals?

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Are you sensible or senseless when it comes to animals?

Seriously, I want to know.

Recently I shared a story with a colleague-because I simply could not believe what I heard.

It seems that a dog I was working with had previous training with a “dog trainer.”

However, that wasn’t what shook me up.

It was the fact that the dog owner allowed the person to be abusive to her animal without questioning it.

Now, there is a certain amount of trust that is passed on to a person by a referral agency–such as a veterinary clinic or other trusted pet care professional.

Also, there is an unwritten trust that is given to those who are considered “professionals.”

But common sense should prevail in certain situations.

In this case, it would have saved an animal a lot of trauma.

Now, I am often called in to work with cases where others have been unsuccessful.

This was no different. In fact, it took several sessions for me to win over the animal’s trust.

However, I didn’t need the trust to train the owner to train the dog–and so that was what we did until the animal decided I was okay.

I never force a relationship with a critter because what is important is for the animal to learn to trust, that trust allows it to learn quickly and easily.

Also, and more importantly, it is the job of the owner to learn how to work with the animal successfully–and this pet parent was doing well.

When you are good at animal training, you can pass the knowledge along and train someone to get results without having to actually put your hands on an animal.

Happily, once the animal was comfortable with me, she began to eagerly greeted me and solicited attention on school days.

Now, since both the owner and animal were clearly at ease–it was time to ask some serious questions.

I noticed that her dog was very fearful when it came to equipment and learning new things.

So, after one of our sessions ended, I asked the dreaded question, “How did your dog react to the last trainer?

To my horror the owner said, “She would run into the back bedroom and hide behind the bed.

As I uncovered more and more information, a serious pit formed in my stomach.

The pet parent had actually allowed her dog to be abused by someone who had simply hung out a shingle that read, “dog trainer” but that had no skills with animals and who was actually cruel.

Sure, there are some animals who have a predisposition to being fearful, but when an animal exhibits such blatant fear and dislike of the trainer, why would you continue with that person?

It is senseless.

My friend and colleague said, “People just put their pets in the hands of professionals because they expect them to be the experts.”

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Fair enough, but what ever happened to using common sense?

Sad to say that I think many people do more research and investigative work when it comes to buying a television than when it comes to working with a living creature living in their home!

Now I know my readership is made up of the sensible sort but even so, many don’t know just how to make the right choices when it comes to food, care, training and other things we professionals take for granted.

When it comes to your animals, I am sure you have taken actions that are sensible and that sometimes have been senseless–care to share your learning process?

Also, have you ever tolerated something because you’ve been relying on the “expert”?

If so, do tell us about it and what actions you would take instead now–just share in the comments below or in the notes over in my Facebook community.

Pets & Kids

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Above: Nine-year-old masters how to properly hold a puppy.

Over the weekend I got to go visit a litter of puppies that I first met seven weeks ago.

The entourage on the expedition included a grandma, a mom, a 9-year-old, a two-year-old and me.

Needless to say, I believed it was going to be entertaining.

At seven weeks of age, the puppies were very active and very mouthy and paired with kids under the age of nine means that usually it is a circus.

But I was happily surprised.

The nice thing about the entire group was that everyone was relaxed and so not much was an issue.

This situation was the exception rather than the rule since, in many cases, pet parents get into trouble by being lax about monitoring the kids and dogs.

I liked that both of the females allowed the kids to wander and let them work out some of the details during their interactions on their own but that an adult was at the peripheries to intervene if necessary.

One puppy immediately took a liking to the small child because he was just her size and she gazed calmly and amorously up at him.

She was so calm that it alarmed me because that is not normal puppy behavior!

All the pups liked the kids because they were closer to their size and active–which can be a problem in some households simply because the activity escalates and feeds back and forth between the children and the dog.

It often will continue to escalate until someone ends up in tears or the parent puts a stop to the cycle.

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Above: Ark Lady redirects part of the puppy swarm to a squeaky, chew toy.

In this particular case, the kids grew up with a dog and so were not naive.

They actually had a skill set to help them deal with the six active delinquents.

I liked the fact they knew to get up on a chair to escape the pups.

This was a great change from the children I often see squeal or run and then trigger escalated play response from the puppies.

Kids under the age of ten simply do not have the skills or restraint to deal with pets on their own.

At one point the two-year-old was suddenly surrounded by puppies but he did not panic and put his back against the fence to support himself.

This was a good skill (be a tree) and worked until mom could scoop him up in her arms.

I find most kids that young usually cannot restrain themselves to follow instructions given to them previously and most don’t have the opportunity to practice.

Although very tall for his age, the older child was within the norms of the age group–very active and not able to contain his urges to move.

He actively ran and jumped so that all the puppies followed and once he got them amped up–he escaped by using the chair.

What was interesting about the afternoon session was to watch how the kids behaved around another species so that everyone remained safe–even in chaos.

At first, the older child cuddled one puppy incorrectly but then, with some guidance, realized that the puppy should be handled so that it was supported and so it could breath easily instead of upside down and cuddled to the chest.

It was a great socialization session for the puppies and for the kids.

Plus, everyone got sufficiently dirty and tired.

More people should make the effort to make sure their puppies and kids get exposed to each other in safe conditions–it benefits everyone in the long term.

And, as predicted, all youngsters of both species hit the hay early for a good night of sleep!